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Our Friendly Home in Sopot – only such place in Poland

There is a place in Sopot for adults with intellectual disabilities. They live and work there with the support of parents, assistants and carers.

When a family member with a disability appears, there is a beginning of big struggle of parents’ own feelings, fight with the difficulties and the system... Over time there is uncertainty and fear for the child's future. What will happen when I am gone? Who will take care of my child's feelings and safety? These and other questions are asked by parents with disabilities throughout their lives. Sooner or later, there comes a point when providing an independent and safe place for an adult child with a disability becomes a priority for the older parent, especially for single parent.

In the centre of Sopot, a few minutes’ walk from the beach and the pier, in The Herbst Park, a unique place was build: Our Friendly Home (Nasz Przyjazny Dom). The house started to bustle with life before Christmas 2020, when Peter and Michael - the first of 12 residents - moved in. Gradually, others joined in.

The two-storey house was built thanks to the enormous determination and contribution of private funds of the parents of disabled children. They created Our Friendly Home Foundation in 2013 to make it possible. They have got a great support of the Sopot authorities who donated land for the building, as well as the commitment of companies who supported the initiative, despite the global crisis caused by the Sars-CoV2 coronavirus pandemic.

Mieszkańcy Naszego Przyjaznego Domu w Sopocie przy pracy

The residents take care of the house and its surroundings themselves. From the left: Wojtek L., Sebastian W., Wojtek B., Piotr J. and caretaker Barbara Krzyślak and president of the Foundation Our Friendly Home Renata Birtus (Photo by Sylwia Kurszewska)

The creation of this place is an excellent example of social innovation. It is currently the only such house in Poland. Assistants and a carers support residents in resourcefulness of life, rehabilitation, participation in social life and professional activation within the framework of economic activity run by the Foundation. The parents pay for the residents' stay at the house each month. However, this is a drop in the ocean of needs. That is why, you can get following paid services in Our Friendly Home in Sopot:

  • the house offers 3 double guest rooms

  • conference area for workshops, trainings or other business meetings for up to 70 people

  • rehabilitation services mainly for elderly residents (for example there is hyperbaric chamber in the house)

  • respite services – short-term relief for parents of people with disabilities struggling to find time for themselves. The person with a disability will join the residents of the home whilst his/her family will be able to take advantage of the free time at least for a short period of time.

The journey to independence began for all residents under the guidance of assistants and carers after moving the Our Friendly Home. What is their daily life looks like? They eat meals together, take care of their rooms and common areas, help each other, go to workshops, therapeutic classes and take part in various activities in the Tricity, e.g. they play in theatre or music band. Six of them work, five at the reception desk in the house, one at the Nursing Home in Sopot.

Wojtek, mieszkaniec Naszego Przyjaznego Domu w Sopocie, pracuje na recepcji.

Wojtek B. during his work at the reception desk (Photo by Sylwia Kurszewska)

When asked residents how they feel about living in Our Friendly Home, they all say that it is their new home now. However, the beginning was not sometimes easy for everyone. There were difficult moments, mainly because of the huge change and the longing for their parents. Fortunately, there are mobile phones, so they make sure to keep in touch with their parents often, visiting each other. This contact is especially important for parents, especially single mothers, who have suffered from empty nest syndrome and have not been able to find their way in the new reality. Since they moved, life has changed completely. House residents say:

Now we have to be more independent, we have a lot of responsibilities, we are sometimes tired after work, but here we have our own home and we like to come back here. We also have friends and like to spend time together. It is fun. Our assistants help us with all our problems and are very nice.

What's more, several of them have found love after moving here. Others are looking for it.

In the house you feel a very friendly atmosphere. Right from the threshold, visitors are greeted with a smile by the residents working at the reception desk. They happily talk about how they would like to run their own café in future. While mowing and raking the grass around the house, they plan tomorrow. Our Friendly Home is a place that integrates. You can hear about the many positive activities behind which stand the parents and carers who give their hearts to this place. However, managing such a place involves many logistical, administrative, financial or pandemic challenges that make many activities not easy. All the more reason to showcase and support such wonderful, unique initiatives!

The involvement of every single person participating in the creation and functioning of this place is important since the beginning. However, it is impossible not to emphasise the merits of Mrs Renata Birtus - mother of one of the wards, president of Our Friendly Home Foundation. Everything began in her mind. The need to create such a home arose many years ago, when she feared about the future and safety of her disabled son, when neither she nor her husband would be around. Mrs Renata Birtus and her husband Jacek donated the assets to build the house. They also encouraged other parents to join this project by making a financial contribution. The Birtus family did not think only about their son, but also about other disabled people and their parents. As Renata recalls, to build and organize Our Friendly Home, many doors had to be knocked on. There were a lot of stumbling blocks. There were many doubts and disappointments along the way. For example, the fact that the allocation of a plot of land by the city for this type of investment aroused dissatisfaction and protests among some residents. Eventually, the house was built. The impossible became possible!


Sylwia Kurszewskaprofessionally connected with the Centre of Continuing in Sopot, where she coordinates the activities of the international projects team, undertaking initiatives for various social groups. Educator. President of the Work-Education-Health Association, acting for the socially excluded or at risk of such exclusion. EPALE Ambassador.


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